Challenges

We've all been through it not just once but several times in our life. I have always believed life to be mysterious. It can surprise you anytime. Well currently I am going through a stage where I feel completely lost (not in terms of having no direction but in terms of defeat). While trying to achieve things outside of just the ordinary I feel I have even failed to achieve the ordinary. Yes even I have heard the saying that "If you set your goals ridiculously high and it's a failure; you will fail above everyone else's success" but it didn't work out for me, or at least it seems like it hasn't. Yeah the things which I have done might give me an edge in the future but currently I am miserable like totally miserable. Sometimes even the motivational videos are of no help coz I know my current state and there is a way out. I can see it but I don't want to do it. Why? Because that'll make me just like the rest, someone who follows the herd. But still for a while let's say I did it. Guess what? I have no time left for the things which I had planned to do. This is when I realised Life's hard. When I think of my parents' as in how did they overcome all the struggles, I feel as if, if I were in their shoes, I would have never made it. Like never ever in my life moved forward and reach to positions which my parents' have reached.

Anyway, last para was leading to a more depressing tone so I thought to change a paragraph and re-start with something positive but wait; why run away from a problem? Let's just face it isn't it. If we analyze, the situation which we're in right now is totally because of our choices. In short we are a product of the choices we make. So in order to make our future situations better than our present all we need to do is make better choices. As simple as that. Now the question becomes how does one make good choices? Okay, ponder on this, have you ever been in a situation where someone asked you for an advice and you could help them out make a good move but when a similar situation came to you, you could not help yourself and you were in a dilemma. This usually happens to us because when it comes to ourselves, emotions play a huge part in the decision making process. While giving advice to someone we're not emotionally aware of their conditions and hence we are able to make concrete decisions. That is exactly what we should do in our lives. Whenever we incur such situations just think what advice you'd give to someone else and follow that.

There's one more thing to challenges and failure. Several times we may fail because we're wanting things to happen in our favor and are working for it but we're doing that for multiple things at a time. I know multitasking is a skill but that is to be done only when we've become good at something. It's not something you do when you're yourself a noob. So, let's stick to one goal at a time and I know sticking to just one may also be a trouble for some people and that's where priority comes into picture we need to prioritize our goals and act accordingly. All the best!